The stories of immigrants

How to destroy the marble palace?.

Once again think about the fact that immigration is the hardest? . And these foolish illusion, in my opinion, is the main cause of divorces in Interethnic Marriages.

A friend of mine suggested to me a simple but ingenious mys. ... Here he is the answer! . In the conflict shall take our ideas about this country and this life is in it. And the blood flows the river, fly innocent head. Oh, he lives not in the marble palace! . Oh, I was deceived in my expectations! .

The poor pretender to the hand and heart in shock and bewilderment. How did he know that his country so much misconceptions? . About them and no one even remembered in all this fuss.

Marble Palace - this is fine. But the sooner you will destroy him in their thoughts, the better. Instead, build a common, strong house, where it is warm and cozy, with a number of my own, a caring soul and the chirping of children's voices. Believe me, happiness lies in the.

The most difficult - children's question.

Now the most difficult in a marriage with an American. As in my former favorite TV show, 'What? . The children of her husband from a previous marriage - is a real stumbling block, and often a reason for divorce. And not because American offspring are already daredevils. Simply the ratio of the Pope to them a totally different. 100 per cent different from the ratio of domestic to a wealthy man to his heirs after divorce. We have both? . Well, for my birthday can tell, if ' weave ' rolled forward. But, of course, it's not all, so that the approximate fathers - sorry. My friend Ira 's ex-husband of Atlanta - Muscovite - just a sample of paternity. He not only financially supports his son, but recently came to see how the child lives and learns in college. And did not come empty-handed. Unfortunately, such a wonderful Russian father - one in a thousand.

It is not so. Here, ordinary, ordinary dad are fighting for the right to raise and educate children after the divorce, along with his mother. They hire lawyers and the courts on this issue tretitruyut, and children are trying to lure to their side, and then just have not done up to the abduction. There are many cases where children live by court order or mutual agreement polnedeli with one parent, the second half with another. Above all, my father regularly pays child support, buy gifts, give pocket money. American women are loyal to it - is the norm for them, and do sometimes in the same situation are when a second time to get married. With our women harder. They are difficult to tolerate her husband's children from his first marriage, not to say they hate the savage hatred. Sad but true. Over the past year, only two of my friends phone divorced for this reason. One set condition, or children, or I. The second scandal rolled after each visit to the husband of the old family. Both the Americans themselves have filed for divorce, choosing, of course, children.

I do not yet fully understand this phenomenon, but it is very strange that our good at heart women sometimes turn into evil stepmothers in the fairy tale of Cinderella. Selfishness is probably. Or, in the female nature is something hidden. And it's so easy to understand that divorce is not a man with children, and his wife. That's all. Moreover, he implicitly accepts your children, whose mother says my father is not very often. But I repeat myself. Once again, good fathers, sorry. So, dear women, Measure seven times, and once cut off the when you come to marry a man with children.

I'm going home. feelings mixed.

Going home soon. On the one hand you want to I can not, on the other - you do not want to I can not. Why do you want - it is clear. And why not - try to explain. Only without the insults, please! . Secondly, I will act on the nerves of compliments such as ' what are you wearing for the antediluvian shoes? ' . Thirdly, people will wait for expensive gifts ( you're from America, and must give everyone at least on the car. In America, meanwhile, has a gift for $ 10 - a very nice gift. And even for 1 dollar - good. The most important thing - attention ). Fourth, I already pre- miss ' rubber ' American smiles.

I can not digress. Can not understand why the American smile because we hate? . Maybe because ' they are, dogs, live well, so smile? ' . Many of our, once in this paradise, ready to hang the next day. or other. Our people still condemn ' amerikosov ' for the fact that those poking toothpicks in his mouth. But no warps when someone nazhiraetsya to pig squeal, utter nonsense is even, sorry, vomits in a public place. But I am distracted.

And yet, at home I'd like to. I even scored extra shifts at work now, and stick like a horse to each other and bring a friend though a small gift. I understand, of course, that people will not understand me, because I'm from America. But still I can not help myself. People are not to blame because they do not understand.

And more. For many years, I dream to travel to Kalmykia. She told me often dream at night. Like how people did! . But not sure I could soon realize his dream. I'm afraid I have to go to the south of Russia, even though they say that the calm in the republic. And all around? . I am here in America, finally, for the first time a truly happy and began to love and appreciate life ( hope this one ). And it does not want to plunge in the homeland in a story.

And Americans are smiling because this is the norm of behavior. Just a good tone.

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